House vs Home

What is in a house if it is without a home?

You might say there are many things such as...furniture, kitchen, bedrooms...etc
But..is that what really makes up a home...
These things might contribute to making a house feels comfortable
But is it so for a home...?

Sometimes, we fail to distinguish the differences...
And sometimes we are only able to understand this difference(s) if and only if, sadly, when we lost it...
Be it losing a home or a house...

Therefore, we can better cope if we have lost a house but hardly when we have lost a home...

ALONE

When you are standing alone at the bus stop, are you actually alone?
When you are talking to yourself, are you actually alone?
When you are seated at a long dining table wanting to have your meal, are you actually alone?

This is not questions leading to any horror movie...hehehehe
But these are questions that I would personally ask myself...

Many of us would feel very insecure when we are without our friends or family members around us at any point of time in our life
Which leads to me questioning 'Why is this so?'
There is nothing wrong in wanting someone to be there to share our happiness or sorrows each moment
But there is also nothing wrong in sharing these feelings within ourselves...
Only then will you able to hear ourselves better...
Only then will you able to understand yourselves better...
Only then will you feel the comfort of being together with yourself when no one is around

Why is this so?

We live in such a manner that we tend to easily forget our existence..
Forget the actual aim in life...
Forget that this life is never permanent...
But...by sharing these emotions with ourselves, it actually help in reminding one that we should not abandon our needs..
The needs to feedback to ourselves what we did for the day, our actions, thoughts and feelings...

So are we that alone?
Nope, we do have ourselves that we can trust and depend on...
Because our heart never lies...


Anytime Loneliness Occur Never fEar

Surprises

Life is full of surprises....
One can hardly guess what is coming ahead of us...
But one can still take careful steps in approaching the unknown...

Question remains: How ready am I for what is installed for me??!!
Ever-ready..somewhat ready..never ready...
I can never be able to answer that if I have yet to exprience it myself

For sure, one surprise will lead to another..
Thus it is important that I make the right choices when facing them
Still, as a human being, we can never escape from making the wrong decisions
But, I have made by choice and will stand by it as long as I believe that that is the right one for me to achieve the aims and goals that I have in life
And have not trouble others...

*this post is dedicated to all who has been waiting for my next entry..=)*

what an experience...

Bringing oneself up after a great fall is one of the hardest thing to do...
But the process will be made harder if high expectation is instilled without looking at the possibility of falling with a great thud...
That I have learnt from the a race that I have not come in with high hopes...
But hopes do arise when you are doing great...
But one thing for sure, when you have been doing great all thus far, one tend to forget an important part of memory that should always be part of our mind at all time...
In enjoyment should we remember, so is in sadness...
The experience I had have made me learn to embrace each moment, regardless of the emotion that comes with it, filled with dignity and composure...=)

Nature...Enjoyzz...

The night view in Singapore...

Mouth in the sky...WOW!!

Island in the sky...yup, it is up there in the sky...

Feel like I'm in a foreign country..Ahhh!!!

The mixture of clouds

Can you see that? Isn't that cool...

Breath-taking...

weaknesses and strengths

We all have our own weaknesses and strengths that we either realise it or not
We have our fair share of both factors
But what do we do with it?
Hide the weaknesses and outshine the strengths?
That is denial of who we really are...
The best thing to do, for me, is to admit that we are just human beings
Not admitting being someone that we are not
Being who we really are so that we do not need to live in lies, be it toward others or most importantly to ourselves

BUT....

Sadly, in our society, there are still weaknesses of others that are magnified such that it become disabilities that many think are impossible to be cured
In actual fact, these weaknesses that we have classified them to be, are actually strengths for them to move on
Mirrors for us to reflect our true qualities to enable us to open our horizon of perceptions
Classes to teach us things that we never understood and might have taken granted for all this while

Let us together help others to help us understand our strengths and weaknesses to find the balance in life..=)

One second

in One Second, many things can happen:

Some live on, others don't,
Some find the successes that they have been searching for, others don't
Some are happy with what is happening, others don't
Some are healthily exercising, others don't
Some are angry over something, others don't

The list can go on and on and on and on and on and on and on and on.....
but, in this One Second, what did you do?
For me, in this One Second, i will continue to breathe till....